Tales of personal encounters, sometimes humorous, sometimes serious, sometimes grumpy, sometimes informative, but always true and sincere...
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Check out Jurong Point extension!
I find that the new mall looks like Marina Square/Vivo City now :) That is, having more of a "town area mall" taste rather than a "neighbourhood" taste.
Here are some of the new stores that interest me:
Chomel
Pretty Fit
The Cheongsam Shoppe
The Clothes Publisher
Bakerzin
Benten Cafe (Japanese pasta restaurant)
Burger King
Cavana Express
Dian Xiao Er
Ding Tai Feng
Haagen-Dazs Cafe
Ji De Chi Dessert
Jia Xiang Mee Village
Kuishin Bo
Lai Lai Hong Shao Niu Rou Mian (although I no longer take beef now)
New York New York
Old Town White Coffee
Sky Thai Fastfood
Thai Express
ToastBox
Skin Food
Mini Toons
Aussino
Pets' Station
Harris bookstore
Challenger
Fairprice Xtra
Yamakawa Super
And lots of little shops selling cute gifts and apparels...
Just walking past the new shops today is enough to excite me! I have not even gone inside them to browse and shop!
Monday, December 8, 2008
Kiddy toys
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Congratulations, HJ!
Cosy and warm setting with grand piano on stage.
Father's Kite-buying tale
My father bought one kite at Chinatown at $4.50 and went to test fly it nearby. It was rather windy and the kite flew. A mother and her child walked pass and the child said "I want! I want!" Therefore the mother went up to my father (thinking that he was selling kites) and asked him how much was the kite. My father quoted $5. The mother tried to bargain with him but my father told her it was already very cheap and his profit margin was only 20 cents. In the end he completed the sale at $5.
My father went back to the shop and bought a second kite and went to test fly it again. This time 2 students went up to him and asked if he was selling kites. He told them he was a demonstrator. Again he sold the kite to them at $5.
My father went back to the shop again and bought a third kite. The shop owner remembered him and asked "Didn't you just buy a kite?" My father replied, "Well, I am your regular customer!" And the shop owner said, "Well, then you may have the kite at a 50 cents discount - $4 for you then!"
(LOL....)
Friday, October 10, 2008
Rest In Peace
Yes, it had poor appetite 2 weeks back. Its stomach was slightly bloated and whenever it gobbled up the food pellets, it simply spat them up without swallowing. But didn't its stomach go back to normal after several days? Yes, it seemed to have shrunk in size without having much food over those days but didn't it start to eat and swallow some smaller pellets again?
Things seemed to be going well until 2 nights ago, I noticed little bloating at its stomach again. It couldn't have put on that much weight overnight? Oh dear. And guess what, yesterday night its condition got even worse. The bloating became more intense and even the scales seemed to have puffed out. Internet sources say that this is a disease known as "dropsy" where there is building up of internal pressure caused by bacteria infection. Although there is antibiotic treatment, most cases of dropsy are fatal. But I didn't give up hope after knowing that. We planned to get the medicine from an aquatic store the very next day (today). I said a prayer before I went to bed last night, hoping that Normal would recover soon.
But just this morning, when I looked in at the quarantined pail, poor Normal's body had flipped. It had gone....
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Never to grow up
Being a child is great. No burden, no responsibility. They just need to eat and play. No one will blame them if they do not excel in their studies. When they make mistakes, they will be let off after they get punished, and their mistakes would be forgotten by adults. If they show improvement in their behaviour or studies, they get lots of praises and rewards. They can say whatever they like, without thinking whether their words will hurt others. What is money to them? They just know money can buy things, but never wonder how hard it is for the money to come by.
Being a toddler is even better. Adults are happy as long as they do not cry and do not fall sick. Who remembers what kind of tantrum the child got into the day before? If they can follow simple instructions, it is a bonus.
What about an adult? Lots of burdens and responsibilties. People remember the mistakes you have done. Sometimes there are nice people around to show you some guidance, but you are expected to show improvement fast. If you do not perform up to par in the expected time frame, the nice people will still get annoyed.
Smart people pick up things fast and they get more in life. For example, in a dance workout, if a student can catch the steps and routine in that lesson, she gets to work out more and enjoy the lesson more. The slower students remain blur throughout the whole lesson and don't get to perspire much. In short, they waste their time and money. It is even more true in any workplace. Which boss likes an employee who is dumb and slow?
This is a competitive society we are living in. Is the society willing to be more patient with slower people or slower people have no choice but just have to keep striving?
I wish I had treasured my childhood days more.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Happy MV :)
When I saw this MV on cable tv the first time today, I was really captivated by its bright cheerful colours, cute bubbly artistes and lively tempo! Although I didn't really catch what the lyrics were all about, although I could tell that Fahrenheit's singing was way below SHE's, I was really in high spirits throughout that few minutes. :D (unfortunately this Youtube version is not as clear as the one I saw on tv)
I really felt strongly, for the first time, that the artistes in the MV did succeed in their role, that is, to entertain.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
How to enjoy your life and job
- Let's not imitate others. Let's find ourselves and be ourselves. Remember, there is no one else on earth like you.
- Apply the four good working habits that will help prevent fatigue and worry: Clear your desk of all papers except those relating to the immediate problem; Do things in order of their importance; When you face a problem, solve it then and there if you have the facts necessary to make a decision. Don't keep putting off decisions; Learn to organise, deputise and supervise.
- Most of our fatigue derives from our mental and emotional attitudes - boredom, resentment, anxiety, worry, etc. Such emotional factors exhaust the person, makes him susceptible to colds and reduce his output. Therefore you must learn to relax while you are doing your work. Begin by relaxing your muscles. Think of yourself as an old crumpled sock. Otherwise you are producing nervous tensions and nervous fatigue!
- Our life is what our thoughts make it. You can direct yourself to think thoughts of courage and happiness, power and peace. By thinking the right thoughts, you can make any job less distasteful. Think of what getting interested in your job will do for you. Remind yourself that it may double the amount of happiness you get out of life, for you spend about one half of your waking hours at your work, and if you don't find happiness in your work, you may never find it anywhere. Keep reminding yourself that getting interested in your job will take your mind off your worries, and in the long run, even if it doesn't bring promotion and increased pay, it will reduce fatigue to a minimum and help you enjoy your hours of leisure.
- Would you take a million dollars for what you have? Count your blessings - not your troubles!
- If you are tempted to be worried about unjust criticism, remember that unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. Remember that no one ever kicks a dead dog.
- Do the very best you can; and then put up your old umbrella and keep the rain of criticism from running down the back of your neck.
Part 2: Fundamental techniques in handling people
- God himself does not propose to judge man until the end of his days. Why should you and I? Therefore, don't criticise, condemn, or complain.
- The big secret of dealing with people - give honest and sincere appreciation.
- Arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him.
- Do this and you will be welcome anywhere: Be genuinely interested in other people!
- How to make people like you instantly: Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
Part 3: How to win people to your way of thinking
- A sure way of making enemies and how to avoid it - Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, " You're wrong."
- Gentleness and friendliness are always better than fury and force. Begin in a friendly way.
- In talking with other people, don't begin by discussing the things on which you differ. Begin by emphasizing - and keep on emphasizing - the things on which you agree. Get the other person saying "Yes, yes" at the outset. Keep your opponent, of possible, from saying "No." This will set the psychological process of the listeners moving in the affirmative direction.
- How to get cooperation: Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.- Appeal to the nobler motives. Individuals who are inclined to chisel will in most cases react favourably if you make them feel that you consider them honest, upright and fair.
Part 4: Ways to change people without giving offense or arousing resentment
- How to criticise - and not be hated for it: Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
- Talk about your own mistakes before criticising the other person.
- Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
- Let the other person save face.
Monday, August 4, 2008
Onboard Star Aquarius!
11 years ago, we stayed in cramped cabins with double decker beds; now the cabins are much more spacious!
Posters of past performing artistes - eg.费玉清,张宇,甄妮
Sun rise on 2 Aug, 7.15am
Swimming pool outside Dynasty Restaurant
Live band at outdoor restaurant serving BBQ food
The casino was really an eye opener. It was much much bigger than the one at Genting. My little sis and I had a great time going from table to table, not to play, but to figure out how the different games worked. Heeheehee! We even discussed which game dealer had an easier time in his/her work!
Oh yes, almost forget, I counted more than 70 stars on the night on 2 Aug 2008! At first I could only see a few bright stars but as I stared longer into the sky, my eyes were able to see more and more faint stars. Hmm.... This taught me not to see things on the surface only... and to be more patient.... :)
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Weekend Cruise!
Wow, it has been 11 years since I last went on a cruise. Looking forward to watch the stars, sunrise and sunset! Am going to feed myself fat with the sumptuous buffets! They have really yummy Chinese and international cuisines. Hmm... shall I bring my track shoes and sports attire to their gym? After all, I won't be able to go Amore this weekend...
Will post photos when I come back! :D
Thursday, July 10, 2008
梦
最近我常梦见以前的同学,尤其是中学的同学,十多年没见的同学。在梦里,她们的样貌依然是十多年前那样。有句话说“日有所思,夜有所梦”,可是我并没有在白天的时候想着她们啊,哪来的“日有所思”?
难道在我心深处,我很想回到以前那种无忧无虑的日子?
Monday, June 30, 2008
改过自新
这几个星期来,如果没去打那份兼职(薪水又微薄)的工,我几乎可以赖床赖到上午10点多(还好那天Normal出事时,我还来得及救它!),早餐与午餐也吃得乱七八糟,下午也没做到任何建设性的事,直到4点多才想当晚要煮什么晚餐,这才舍得去买菜!新鲜的肉都被早起的auntie们买去了!要不然就是胡思乱想,想一些很负面的事!就连Amore也懒得去!
我真的受不了这样的自己!前阵子我还兴致勃勃地说婚后要好好规划人生,要活的精彩,如今怎么变得那么没有斗志??我一定要改过!
所以我今天调了闹钟,让自己9点前起身(我要开始训练自己越来越早起!)。正正经经地吃完早餐后,我就去上Amore 10点半的课!运动后觉得精神好好,整个人都充满了斗志!才中午12点,我就去吃午餐了!难得今天有定时吃早餐与午餐,心情好好哦!还有还有,午餐过后,我就去买菜了!而不是像平时那样,等到最后一分钟!
当然,我所谓的“活的精彩”不应只是早睡早起,吃的定时而已,但那是最最重要的。我一定要做到。即使现在还没找到全职的工作,我也要让自己每一天都过得充实。我可以看很多书,看新闻,看食谱,弹keyboard,做些手工等等。要不然,开工后,就很难找到时间做这些事了。
明天一早我要到图书馆去!今天逛书局时看到几本励志的书,我把书名和作者都抄了起来,回家上NLB网站search, 没想到我家附近的图书馆可以借的到噢!真是奇迹!既然这些书是畅销书,它们一定很抢手,所以明天一早我就得到图书馆去把它们找出来,免得被别人捷足先登!
今天会比昨天好,明天会比今天更好!加油加油加油!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Chasing Game
It is interesting to watch them play this "chasing game" whereby Normal is always being chased by 红鳍子 and the latter is always being chased by 红眼睛. As a result, they line up in a single file and swim in circles.
Hahaha, what a life.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Poor Normal!
I thought it had died but I could see very faint breathing at its gills. I quickly placed it back in the pond but it remained motionless, its body half-floating half slanting in the water. 红眼睛 and 红鳍子 seemed to be aware of what happened and swam beside Normal and remained by its side. What a worrying sight!! To my surprise, Normal's breathing got stronger and stronger and finally, after a few minutes, it managed to flip back to vertical position and swam a few cm away! It was alive once again!
But Normal appeared so weak. The scales on one side of its body seemed rather ruffled. It must be injured when it landed on the floor.. Its body seemed so unbalanced when it swam and it kept hiding in a corner for the whole day...
Have a good rest, Normal. Hope you get well soon. And please please, don't be so adventurous again. It may cost your life.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Fishies for my Pond!
The one that has red eyeliner is named "红眼睛"; the one that has a small red patch on its fins is named "红鳍子" and the one that appears most normal is named "Normal".
May the little fishies grow big and strong! :D
Monday, May 12, 2008
Fallen ill.....
Yes, I think it makes sense for the second category. After all, if someone whose immune system is ultra strong can get sick, it means the virus is so strong that it can destroy the antibodies completely. Therefore the body needs a long time to build up antibodies again to fight against the virus and hence the recovery time is long.
I fall into this second category. I have not caught the flu virus or had fever for the past 2 years. In fact, I even received a medical incentive of $100 from my company for taking only 1 day MC in 2007, and that was due to mild stomach discomfort. While there was a period which my whole unit took turns to take MC, my body was strong enough to fight against their germs and viruses. I was the only one who didnt fall sick. While I was still proud of this "victory" till last week, my immune system was put to a test after being in contact with a virus carrier (my husband) for 2 days.
Alas! My poor body had been fighting hard for the first few days. Just that stupid me neglected the warning signs of a strangely tired body and didnt have enough rest. Even on the 3rd day when I started to have running nose and had slight fever, I still thought I had recovered when the running nose stopped and even went out with my sis on the 4th day. I think my body could no longer take it. When I came home, the fever started building up again. At one time, my temperature hit 38.1 degrees Celsius. The panadol tablets did manage to suppress it quickly and that night before I slept, my temperature had dropped to 36.9 degrees Celsius. But the next morning on the 5th day, I woke up having my whole body aching. I knew the fever must be back again. True enough, the temperature was 37.8 degrees Celsius. I finally decided to see a doctor.
When I came home from the doctor's visit, my temperature had already risen to 38.6 degrees Celsius and I had a bad running nose and cough. All symptoms of flu started showing up. I even thought I was about to lose my life (after all, I had not had such high fever for almost 10 years!). Even after taking the medicines from the doctor, I still had slight fever till the 6th day, but at least I was recovering...
I guess my body has to build up its immune system all over again. It is really depressing that the strong foundation built up over 2 years had collapsed eventually. Maybe I need to go for flu vaccination before my Japan trip, in case I fall ill again while I am there...
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Farewell, One Raffles Quay!
Sunday, April 20, 2008
I fell down!
What I can only do now is to continue to rub medical ointment on the bruises day after day until they finally fade off. Kneeling really hurts now and I am not able to attend the stretch-fit/yoga/pilates lessons where sometimes I am required to balance on the knees. Haiz! :(
Friday, March 21, 2008
乐器如人生
Sunday, March 16, 2008
弦歌有你 张信哲 x 交响乐
虽然大荧幕上并没有播放歌词,可是当他唱着那些经典歌曲如《过火》,《爱如潮水》,《难以抗拒你容颜》等,大家还是可以跟着唱,可见他真的有好多好多经典歌曲,令人百听不厌!这些歌曲带给我很多很多的回忆,我突然觉得他就像一位很久没见的老朋友,感觉还是那么的熟悉,毕竟我中学年代开始听他的歌,那也是十几年前的事了!
我好像已经好久没买他的CD了,我所拥有的都只是卡带,可见真的是好久好久了。那些卡带都发霉了,不能听了,而我现在才感到遗憾。我怎么不再买他的CD了呢?他的声音还是和以前一样令人陶醉啊!他还是跟以前一样亲切有礼啊!他不就像一位老朋友吗?
演唱会到尾声时,大家都high了起来,很多人甚至跑到台前去想更接近他,他还笑说“怎么演唱会要完的时候,你们才high啊?”不管怎样,我想大家都和我一样,真的很enjoy!!
他说他的新专辑《逃生》将在4月发行,他也有在演唱会上唱了一首很有京剧味道的《牡丹忧》,好好听哦!这张专辑我一定会好好支持!
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Dream on wedding
The dream started off from the banquet venue and I was having the march-in rehearsal with my husband, wearing the white gown with the long tail. I was not wearing any shoes and had to tip-toe as I walked in order to match my husband’s height. He started off walking faster than the tempo of the music (not on beat) and I pulled him back so that he would slow down. I had been worried that I might step on my gown at the front and or even trip but my march-in seemed to be a breeze, even at the point where we walked up the stage.
I saw my jie-meis hopping in, one after another, after the rehearsal. All of them were wearing pretty white dresses with similar designs and materials. Their make-up looked professional even though they had done it themselves. All of them looked very sweet and happy. They were chattering among themselves, didn’t really speak to me.
Not sure why, but the next scene was outdoors. I was trying to look for my wedding shoes (remember I didn’t wear any during the march-in rehearsal?) I was opening up boxes and boxes of shoes but couldn’t find the pair that I was looking for. And goodness knows where all the other shoes come from in the first place! I heard my jie-meis shouting the countdown to the start of something (not sure what) “10! 9! 8! 7!.....” but I still couldn’t find my shoes! I hurriedly went over to them but they had already locked themselves in a little room to discuss how much ang pow they were going to demand from my husband. I banged on the door and shouted that I couldn’t find my shoes and asked them to help me but they ignored me totally. At the same time I also realized that I had forgotten to have a discussion with them beforehand on the details of the gatecrash and the amount they would accept.
It was already past 8pm and the banquet was supposed to start. All guests were already seated. And I was running about bare-footed in their presence trying to look for my shoes! I began to try on some of the shoes in the boxes and they didn’t seem to fit. I was still trying to recall where I had placed my wedding shoes. In the end, I remembered. They were at home.
The lessons learnt from this dream:
-I must remember to bring all the necessities to the banquet venue, eg. my gowns, matching accessories, SHOES, ang pow box, toiletries for bathing, etc. If I forget any one of them, that’s it.
-I must not forget to have a discussion with my jie-meis on the details of the gatecrash.
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
王子
Friday, February 8, 2008
Sentosa Flowers 2008
New year is to celebrate the end of winter and the start of spring traditionally. What image do you have in mind when you think of spring? I think of the bright blooms, chirpy birds and warm cosy weather. :) You can find all these at the Sentosa Flowers! A good place for families, couples and friends to visit during this festive season. But I must say the response this year is really overwhelming (on 2nd day of CNY), such that you see more people than flowers, and there are long queues at "photo spots". Well, but again, where is the atmosphere of New Year if there is no crowd?
Mochi!
Saturday, February 2, 2008
金元甜甜!
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
好心情!
有时候,遇到一个好人,会让你的心情好上一整天;有时候,遇到一个坏人,会让你的心情坏上一整天,甚至气到流泪。而我今天,不只遇到了一个好人,工作也异常顺利!
今天我接到一位时常有工作上来往的bank dealer的电话,他说他帮我找到了红包封套,想在午餐时间拿给我。初次见面,原来这位bank dealer还蛮帅的,虽然他已经38岁了,看起来好像30出头而已!他给我一个大信封,里头有20多包的红包封套,我都觉得有点不好意思,哈哈。他还请我吃roti prata/muttabak哦!我们还聊的蛮多的,这一餐吃得挺开心的!
今天我的office mailbox还蛮静的,没有什么紧急email, 我可以专心做其它事,如果接下来每天都这样,年除夕那天有望作半天就可以回!
我的女manager问我,今天过得怎样?我说还好,应该可以早回,说完便笑了笑。她竟然说,"Do you know that your smile is very sweet? Your husband must have told you that." 我说, "No, he didn't, hahahahaha!" 也许她希望我在公司可以多笑吧,无论如何,有人说我的笑容很sweet, 我应该开心吧!
我今天真的蛮早回家的,6.20pm. :) 今天我老板又反常,6.15pm 就回了,我也更没理由留下来工作了。哈哈。:)
有时候,遇到一个好人,真的可以让你的心情好上一整天。:)
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Puppets!
I managed to catch the Guangxi Puppet Art Troupe in action at Jurong Point yesterday. At first I thought it was just some traditional dance item when suddenly some dancers appeared with large rod puppets. They put up items like 《梁山伯与祝英台》, 《天鹅湖》,《女孩与孔雀》,《西游记-大战红孩儿》. It was amazing to see how the puppets could move in such a life-like manner, especially the ballet puppets! Controlling a ballet puppet seemed the most tedious of all, it needed 3 performers-one in front to control the legs, one in the middle to control the head and spine, one at the back to control the hands.